Monday, August 12, 2013

The Lazy Parent's Guide to Cloth Diapering



Back before my now 12 year old, Ari, was born, I would tell people we were planning to use cloth diapers and encounter skepticism. "That won't last!" older, more experienced parents would tell me. Naturally, I took this as a challenge.

So, from the beginning, failure wasn't an option. Admitting defeat is not something I'm good at.

In light of this, it was a relief to discover that....cloth diapering really isn't that big of a deal.

I mean, I never knew any different. We put Ari in cloth as soon as he came home from the hospital, and never looked back. When Abe came along, he spent a couple of weeks mostly in disposable diapers because he was so relatively tiny that he seemed to be drowning in all the cloth diapers I had. I was utterly horrified by how much we spent on disposable diapers and how much trash we generated during those couple of weeks.

Plus cloth diapers are cuter.

There is a LOT of information out there in internet land about cloth diapering. One could get overwhelmed.

My way is not overwhelming. This is not to say that it is the only way or the best way, of course....but I've put diapers on four baby bums at this point, and they all still seem okay, so....this is the non-overwhelming, uncomplicated, lazy "system" that works for us.

Advance warning: There will not be a bunch of pretty pictures of neat stacks of beautiful diapers, because my method involves messy piles tossed in a drawer. This is too bad, because I really like neat stacks of beautiful diapers. But they tend to make me want to buy more diapers, so it's just as well.

Okay, without further preamble, here's how we do diapers around here:

1. All pocket diapers, all the time: I've messed around with other options, but I always come back to pocket diapers. I was fortunate enough to have my first baby right around the same time pocket diapers were hitting it big, so I've always been able to rely on them. The idea is you have a waterproof outer layer and a fleece inner layer, and then a pocket in between into which you stuff an insert. The fleece wicks the moisture away from the baby into the soaker in the middle. When you change the baby, you pull the insert out and then toss both parts in your diaper pail.

I like pocket diapers because they keep babies dry. A wet baby is a sad baby, in my experience. Now you might say, "oh, but I will change the baby the second the pee touches him, so it doesn't matter what kind of diaper I use!" But sometimes babies pee when they sleep. And, if they are like my babies, this can wake them up if they're not wearing a diaper that magically wicks the pee away from their skin. And things that wake up sleeping babies are BAD things. Evil things. So we can see, through basic logic, that non-pocket diapers are evil. Or, well, anyway, I like pocket diapers best.

I've used Fuzzibunz with all 4 of my kids, and I still love them lots. But there are plenty of other brands these days, too, and most of them are fine. I was very, very lucky to get almost all of Abe's diapers as hand me downs from friends this time around (I even have some that I used for a couple of my kids, passed on to friends, and have now gotten back for Abe), so I've bought very few new diapers for him. Some of the brands I have in rotation at the moment are Fuzzibunz, Green Acres Designs, Blueberry, and Swaddlebees. You can get sized diapers or one-size diapers that adjust with an elaborate system of snaps to fit newborns through toddlers. I like sized diapers because they're generally trimmer fitting, but you save money by getting the one size and not having to buy new diapers as the baby grows.

2. One diaper pail, two waterproof liners: I have a metal step trashcan that I bought at Target as my diaper pail. I have two waterproof bags that I use in it. One of them I've had since one of the other kids was in diapers; the other is this Planet Wise Diaper Pail Liner. When the pail's full (every 2-3 days, usually) I dump the diapers and the bag in the washer and put the other bag in the pail.

3.  Wash them pretty much like regular clothes, only hotter: I'm going to talk about poop for a minute here. Right now Abe's still eating almost no solid food to speak of, so his poop is not very solid. Once it is, I'll dump anything dumpable out in the toilet before I put the diaper in the diaper pail. Here's how I wash diapers:


(that tile? In my laundry room? We did not pick that out. It came with the house. Complete with broken parts and sparkly star stickers.)

The only thing I do differently from any other load of laundry is a pre soak and washing on hot. I use regular detergent. If I notice things getting stinky, I toss some vinegar in the next time I wash diapers. The end.

Then--and here's something I do differently (and more lazily) now than with my first couple of babies--I put them all in the dryer. I used to hang my diapers to dry. But then I noticed that the care instructions for Fuzzibunz actually tell you to put them in the dryer. So I tried it. And it was all fine. So I kept doing it. And, as I've mentioned, some of those diapers have made it through four or five kids in two different families now and are still hanging in there.

4. Sort them and toss them in a drawer: Sometimes, if I'm feeling really ambitious, I put the inserts in the diapers when they come out of the dryer, before putting them away. Lots of times I don't. Our nursery dresser/changing table has a big drawer in the middle divided into three sections. One section gets diapers, one gets stuffers, one gets wipes, the extra diaper pail bag, whatever I can't fit in the other two sections. It looks like this:


See? Nary a neat stack of diapers to be seen. But it works! It takes me less than five minutes to sort through the laundry basket and put them all away. I've actually timed it.

I have a little basket that I put a few diapers and wipes in to keep in the downstairs bathroom. I have a smaller waterproof bag for down there that I put the dirty diapers in and then bring up when it's full:


(I have a cover for that changing pad, but it was in the laundry)



5. Baby wash cloths from Target: you can buy really adorable cloth wipes on Etsy or wherever. Or you can make your own. Or you can buy a few packs of baby wash cloths on clearance at Target and call it a day:


(I have a cover for that changing pad, too. It's kind of nice, even. Minky. Too bad you can't see it).

I wet these with....umm, water. And that's that.

So there you have it. My secret to amazing my extended family with my cloth diapering longevity despite not having much of a work ethic when it comes to laundry! And I did some very official figuring, and concluded that we've spent one billion dollars less than we would have with disposables and single handedly saved the world by using cloth. You're welcome. (I am kidding, by the way. Everyone knows the cloth diapers have to be made from 100% organic hemp to really save the world. Also not using the dryer helps).

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18 comments:

  1. Seriously, thank you for writing this. People make is seem like this giant thing and when I tell people I want to cloth diaper they get all weirded out. I'm like...dudes- it's a diaper! Not rocket science!

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    1. Right? If cloth diapering were my biggest parenting challenge, I'd probably have had like 10 kids ;)

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  2. Yes! We do ours almost exactly the same. Great post!

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    1. heh--I remembered your diaper post from awhile back and went back and reread it after I wrote this...and realized they sounded awfully similar. great minds and all that, right?

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  3. Part of me wanted to try cloth diapers but just never got around to it. They sure do look cute though!

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    1. they really should make cow print disposable diapers, too ;)

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  4. That is just the cutest little cow printed bottom I ever saw :) I bought several cloth diapers before having B, then quickly proceeded to never using them :) I could really have used all this advice then :) I think I would have made another go of it :)

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    1. The pull of the disposables can be strong...I just found a stash of them under my bathroom sink, and I've already used one because i didn't feel like going upstairs to get another cloth one!

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  5. I still haven't convinced the husband to go back to cloth diapering! We were doing two wash cycles (cold and hot with some extra options) to get ours clean which took 2-3 hours. Maybe I need to figure out a simpler wash method.

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    1. Simple is good :). Did you have two in diapers at the same time? That makes things harder!

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  6. great intro post. i've heard that pocket diapers really don't fit well until babies are about 10lbs. is that your experience?

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    1. Thanks, Carissa! I'd say that's about right, IME....that's probably around when I started putting Abe in them. My middle two were nearly 10 pounds when they were born, so it wasn't an issue. And I didn't start using pockets until a bit later with my first. They sell extra small fuzzibunz, which I'm sure would work in tinier babies, but I wouldn't be able to justify the expense for such a short time.

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  7. I really liked your no bones about it approach to CDing. We pretty much do the same thing at our house, but I'm a prefolds fan, mostly because they dry a whole lot faster for me on the line than pockets (we use those mostly at night) and we don't have a dryer. Unfortunately, it's rare to have hot water hooked up to your washing machine here in Costa Rica, so I do my best without it. Praise God, it hasn't been too much of a problem, but you'd better believe that next time my family moves, I'll be looking for a hot water hookup for the washer! Thanks for sharing your routine, Gretchen! CDing really isn't much of a chore.

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    1. Thanks for stopping by! Cloth without hot water or a dryer--you're dedicated! :)

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  8. This inspired me to get back into cloth diapering! Hopefully this week. :) It truly does save $, and I really need to save $. Thanks!

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  9. Great info! I cloth diapered my son for 2 years and am now prego with our 3rd baby, excited to cloth diaper my 3rd baby! If you get a chance, please link up to my linky party going on now: http://suburbsmama.blogspot.com/2013/08/sunday-linky-21.html

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  10. LOVE HIM in the cow print Blueberry! I want to kiss his chunky leg.

    OMG it gave me a shock to see the stuffers and the diapers separately in your drawers! I was like- but that pink one! It goes inside a Swaddlebees! LOL I was very specific about matching them up- they all have mates that fit them best, and I didn't like to have them mismatched. So do you just throw any stuffer with any diaper? Or match them from the drawer? I'm fascinated that your system is so laissez-faire!

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    1. Ha! This explains why you're always hesitant to give me diapers without their stuffers! I pay virtually no attention to which stuffer goes in which diaper. I have a bunch of infant prefolds that I use as stuffers, in fact--talk about not fitting perfectly ;). Now I feel bad because I'm sure the outgrown-by-Abe diapers I just gave back to you do not have the correct stuffers in them! You should have provided me with some sort of coding system--like Garanimals.

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